He Won't Go Guide

Tell them before they arrive: "I’m free from 6:00 to 9:00!"

Stand up. Start tidying small things. Move toward the kitchen. People naturally follow movement. He Won't Go

You don't owe anyone instant access to your time. It’s okay to leave messages on read or mute stories. Tell them before they arrive: "I’m free from 6:00 to 9:00

If he’s still there after you’ve cleared the table and put on your pajamas, it’s time for "The Direct Approach." People naturally follow movement

Whether it’s a friend who doesn’t pick up on social cues, an ex who is lingering in your life, or a houseguest who has officially overstayed their welcome, the "He Won't Go" scenario is an awkward rite of passage.

Be vulnerable about your own needs. "I’ve hit my social wall for the night and really need some quiet time." Most reasonable people will respect a boundary when it's stated clearly. 3. Dealing with the "Emotional Lingerer"