: The anus is a muscle; it does not permanently lose its shape from regular use. In fact, many regular bottoms are "tighter" because they have better muscle control.

: Some bottoms pride themselves on their ability to control their pelvic floor muscles , consciously tightening or relaxing to create different sensations for their partner.

: Tops often find the visual and auditory reactions of a bottom—such as moaning or eye contact during the initial "slide in"—to be the most "interesting" or arousing part of the experience.

Tops, what the problem with a hole being “too tight”? : r/askgaybros

: Extreme tightness can sometimes be counterproductive. It can cause discomfort for the top, making it difficult to maintain an erection or even resulting in bruising if the bottom "clamps down" too hard. Common Misconceptions

A recurring topic in community forums like r/askgaybros is the myth that frequent sex leads to a "loose" hole.

Are you interested in or more anecdotal experiences from the community?