Use Sternberg’s theory to balance your couple: Intimacy (closeness), Passion (desire), and Commitment (the choice to stay).

This is the engine of your story. It should stem from three areas:

Start with characters who are multidimensional and have internal "wounds" or flaws that prevent them from finding meaningful love.

Personal fears, past trauma, or a "secret from oneself" (e.g., believing they are unlovable).

Outside forces keeping them apart (e.g., distance, a rival, or family pressure). The Structure of Romance - DIY MFA

Direct friction between the lovers (e.g., clashing worldviews).

This guide outlines the essential components for crafting compelling relationships and romantic storylines, covering core elements, structural beats, and common dynamics to help you build a resonant narrative.