Comedienne

There’s often a weird pressure for women in comedy to choose: do you want to be glamorous or do you want to be hilarious? To that, I say: why not both? You can wear red lipstick and still be the funniest person in the room. Comedy is about authenticity. Whether you're discussing the chaos of parenting or the dark, messy aspects of being human, being unapologetically yourself is what truly connects with an audience. 4. Pro Tips for the Aspiring Funny Girl

The best way to get better is with a live audience—it’s instant, brutal, and beautiful feedback. For many of us, this means balancing a full-time job with the "open mic hustle." If it's a weeknight, I have to calculate the travel radius to ensure I still get enough rest for my 9-to-5, yet I always show up with energy because that one stage spot is precious. 2. Finding Your Voice (and Your "House") comedienne

Do you have a favorite who inspires you to be more authentic? Let’s celebrate the women making us laugh in the comments below! There’s often a weird pressure for women in

One of the most important lessons in comedy is knowing your . A mentor once told me you need to know "what house you're going to live in before you buy the furniture". Whether your style is sharp social commentary like Heather Jay Harris or the "nomadic, edgy" vibe of someone like Trish Smart , consistency is the secret sauce to building momentum. 3. The "Pretty vs. Funny" Myth Comedy is about authenticity

If you want the audience to like you, show them you're having fun too.

Give your jokes room to breathe so the audience can actually hear them. Simplify: Less is almost always more.

If you’re thinking about stepping onto that stage for the first time, here are three "golden rules" to keep in mind: