Harvey argues that a man’s requirements are simpler than most women think. To feel fulfilled and stay committed, he needs:
Harvey claims a man isn't ready for a serious relationship until he has figured out three things: (His identity) What he does (His career/purpose) Act like a Lady, Think like a man
A major theme is that men will only do what you allow them to do. If you don't have a "price of admission," men will treat you like a bargain. Harvey argues that a man’s requirements are simpler
He needs to know you’re in his corner, especially when he’s battling the world. Loyalty: He needs to know you are his and his alone. He needs to know you’re in his corner,
Steve Harvey’s Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man is essentially a "playbook" for women who are tired of being "fished" by men without a plan. The core premise is that men play by a different set of rules, and if you want a committed relationship, you need to stop playing by yours and start understanding theirs. 1. The Three Things Every Man Needs
A man will respect a woman who has the self-worth to leave a situation that doesn't meet her standards. 5. The "Who, What, and How Much"
Men who are just looking for fun, have no intention of settling down, and will say whatever it takes to get what they want. Once they’ve "caught" you, they throw you back.